Always Trust in your Intuition

The most important lesson to learn in this game called life is to trust in your intuition.  We go against ourselves every time we give our power away to outside forces.  Whether it’s to please others and to not offend them, the need for acceptance, approval  or material gain.  

It never works out!  

Your intuition will always lead you on the right path. However, it means trusting in yourself.  Not always easy when we spend a lifetime being told who we are, how we should act,  what is right, what is wrong and so on. At the end of the day whose truth is it? 

No one can tell you who you are or how you should be. Only you can do that. But how  many of us go against ourselves? Then, when things don’t work out we play the blame  game, refusing to take responsibility. Or worse, attack ourselves for allowing it to happen  in the first place. At the end of the day no one makes us do anything. There is always a  choice.  

Instead of playing the blame game, see it as a lesson, an opportunity to heal your wounds  so you don’t get played again. Trust me when I tell you that if you do not then the same  lesson will keep coming back until you learn it and move past it.  

Recently I learnt the most powerful lesson.  

I will never again go against my intuition no matter what anyone thinks.  “What other people think is none of my business.” 

Yet we are conditioned to seek approval from others, believing that other people’s  opinions matter more than ours. To be accepted in this society no matter what the cost.  When you accept you for who you are then there is no need for any of it.  

A friend who I know had good intentions convinced me to connect with one of her  “spiritual” friends living in India, giving me the speel of how enlightened and spiritual he is,  that he was just seeking new friends, to share teachings etc.  

Yes, I was played. 

Upon first contact with him, my intuition was telling me to unfriend him. However, I didn’t  due to the importance I placed on my friendship with her. She is someone I respect  greatly and fully trust. I didn’t want to offend her.  

The truth came out on the second call and my intuition was correct. He had no interest in  friendship, sharing teachings or even learning anything about me. He only had one thing  on his mind. That is to lure a western woman to be his partner and to look after him in his  old age.  

He would not take no for an answer even though I was honest from the start and made it  clear that I had no interest in him or living in India. He was even aware that India is my  least favourite place to visit. Even when I finally said that I was not attracted to him he still  carried on as it was all about his agenda. Suggesting that he could come to Australia.

He is what I call a New Age Wanker. Trust me, there are many of them out there. Using  spirituality to manipulate people into getting what they want. If you are one of these  people just know, karma is a bitch and it comes back to you tenfold. 

Normally I would ignore people like this man, but not this time. Clearly being nice and  honest wasn’t working. Enough was enough.  

I am done with needy little men trying to play me and take advantage of my kindness.  Men who are masters at projecting their insecurities and fears, as if you are the one with  the issue. Presuming that just because a person is single, they are not happy and must be  desperate for anyone to want them. God forbid that someone could be free, independent,  happy and content in their world with no need for outside forces to complete them.  Though you might want to be with someone you do NOT need to be with someone.  There is a big difference between wanting and needing. 

Trust me when I tell you relationships based on need never ends well.  

I am also tired of these New Age wankers using spirituality as a way to manipulate for  their own personal gain and to feed their ego.  

You must question everything. 

As Don Miquel once said: 

“As I am boundless I will meet you at your selfishness.”  

That is what I did. 

Before I blocked him I wrote my truth. The pen really is mightier than the sword. Lol.  I said it as it was. He got a universal bitch slap like no other. It was incredibly liberating.  

I am grateful to him, as I will never go against my intuition again no matter what others  think.  

Such a great lesson! Finally I am learning. Better late than never. Lol  

People wear masks pretending to be whatever to whomever. His mask with my friend is  different as she is not single.  

It is important to be clear with what it is you seek for the universe to bring it into play. If it means getting angry then get angry. Just remember you have a choice. 

It’s incredible. Since I wrote my fabulous letter a new world has opened up. I have  attracted new male friends who are honorable, respectful and passionate. Real men,  who are warriors for the planet. Who are walking their talk. 

Super excited to see what we can do together to heal our world.  

Trust in your intuition my friends, it will never fail you! 

Though some might not like what I have to say here, it is nothing personal. Merely a  perception based on my experience.

The truth is: 

Without honesty, without respect there is no relationship. It is the basis of any  connection with another human being. You do not compromise, no matter what.  This is the basic foundation of any connection with another.  

It is incredibly refreshing when you meet another human who gets it…. Christina Christou